Post-Christmas Reflections
I am never celebrating Christmas again.
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This is the second year in a row in which I have spent the Christmas holiday essentially by myself. Last year, I was still sort of laid-up from having just had surgery, and didn’t feel like traveling. This year, of course, I am in Egypt.
Now—so that we are all on the same page—I don’t celebrate Christmas anyway. Years ago, as a child, I decided that I didn’t understand why we celebrated this holiday. My family isn’t religious at all, and I saw this a religious holiday. If you don’t think it is a religious holiday, go to a midnight mass. The other side of the holiday—the secular expression of consumerist glee—disgusts me. Not to mention that this holiday provides everyone who does celebrate it with a month-long nightmare of stress, fighting with relatives who think that they know better than you, generally rude and angry public behavior, and more!
When given all these data:
- Non-religious family
- Disgust for consumerism and wasteful behavior
- Stress, patronizing family, hateful, anti-social behavior = negatives
I conclude:
- I shouldn’t partake in the celebration of this Holiday, because I will never be in the “spirit,” as they say.
I feel like this is a totally reasonable conclusion to reach. However, this holiday will be enforced regardless. I did partake in its celebration while my Grandmother was still alive, because it was her favorite holiday. However, after her passing two years ago, I have felt no obligation whatsoever. It feels great.
Last year I practically forgot. Being drugged up from surgery addles your brain a little bit. I was reminded because my parents and grandfather came to see me and we went out for Jewish Christmas. It was nice for a change. I had delicious Kosher spring rolls and mixed vegetables in spicy black bean sauce.
This year I did forget and had to be reminded that it was Christmas the next day by a Muslim friend. I had mused that it seemed really busy as we walked by a Coptic church.
We were on our way to a Chinese restaurant, where they played Christmas carols on a maniacal loop. I had fried rice and spicy seafood soup.
Ahhhh.
I hope that everyone enjoyed Christmas. I sure did.
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Relax buddy. You don’t have to be so anti-consumerism. Remember, buying stuff in June from Amazon.com still fuels the dirty beast that is capitalism. Christmas and the Holiday season is what you make it. Haven’t you learned anything from movie, tv, and cellphone ads.
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It’s not that I am totally anti-capitalism, I just like to take a more balanced approach and spread it out over the course of the entire year rather than blowing a wad all at once. It’s like crack for the economy. The thing blows p around this time of year and then drops off and heads off to rehab for 9 months before falling off the wagon again.
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John,
We had a great Christmas with Stacey and Mike, Kevin and Dave’s daughter Laura spending all day at our house opening presents, eating, drinking, more eating and of course, more drinking. I recall your name coming up in conversation a couple of times and we all wondered how you were doing. You are right, I did have the month long nightmare of stress as I fussed and fretted over every detail. ‘Tis the season to be jolly? I think I missed the jolly part. But it was worth it in the end. How great to see Stacey and Mike again! Stay healthy John, our best wishes for the new year! Bonnie and Dave
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Well, in that case, hope the winter solstise was enjoyable (though I’m guessing the daylight hours in Egypt are much longer than here in the midwest…) and that you enjoy celebrating the new year. Stay safe, have fun and remember we love you back here